We each have our own unique beliefs, perceptions, opinions and definitions about life, how we see ourselves, others and how we as individuals view the world at large.

But are these beliefs and perceptions that we each hold "REALLY unique?"

Perhaps a more important question is..."Are the beliefs we've adopted and the "filters" these beliefs create REALLY ours?"

My years of research, study and EXPERIENCE have Clearly Revealed to me that the answer is NO. In the vast majority of cases, our beliefs, perceptions and the actions we take aren't really unique at all.

The reason why is because the VAST MAJORITY of the "beliefs and perceptions" we hold, abide by and adhere to are TAUGHT to us.

We think they're ours. We even believe they are in many cases. But they are NOT ours in MOST cases.

The FACT is, we've learned them. We believe, think, speak and act based on what we've "learned", which leads to the undeniable conclusion that OUR beliefs, perceptions and opinions are those we've adopted from others.

It's those beliefs and perceptions that determine our own unique opinions which determine what we DO and HOW we do it. That's what determines what we experience in life in "tangible form."

Those beliefs and perceptions as well as the tangible and measurable experiences that follow and reveal themselves as "tangible experiences" vary greatly from "human to human."

Some see life as smooth, easy, grand, amazing and even awesome, regardless of their "current situation", while some view it as tough, hard, dark, cold, uncaring and unfair regardless of the many blessings they have to be "grateful" for.

Most exist within a paradigm that falls somewhere in the middle.

It doesn't matter where in the mix we fall. As science has proven and as timeless wisdom has ALWAYS conveyed, we experience in life what we think and believe we'll experience.

Our actions as well as our inaction stems from what we think and believe. When the actions don't align and harmonize with what we WANT, it can "seem as if" we have no power and are anything but awesome.

But that's a LIE. In MANY cases it's a LIE that has been, is being and will continue being intentionally planted within the minds of humanity.

The very FACT that our lives unfold precisely as we think, believe, combined with what we do or don't do, is tangible proof of just how awesome, amazing and powerfully creative we humans are.

Or did you?

I don't personally believe there are such a thing as "wrong" choices. I think some of our choices get us what we want and other choices result in receiving what we "don't want."

If the choices we've made thus far haven't provided what we want, it's only necessary to make some new ones.

But let's assume for a moment that you're dead set on the fact that you must just accept whatever hand life deals you. IF that describes YOU, if you exist within that "self limiting and self sabotaging paradigm" and have no desire or intention to shift it REGARDLESS, going any further here or anywhere on the rest of the site, would only be a waste of your time.

That's WHY I ask, up front, what I have. I have ZERO desire to sway you, convince you OR change your mind if YOU have no intention or desire to do that for yourself.

Let's face facts. We ALL want more of something. Think about it. When we get "more" of something we go for something else, don't we? It's our nature.

To get what we want, we're told that we must work hard, sacrifice and DO what it takes...regardless of how we feel about it.

Maybe you think and believe that too.

If so, this might be the most important life lesson you will ever encounter. To begin receiving what you want in the quickest, simplest and easiest way possible, it's going to be NECESSARY to UNLEARN that success (or whatever you want) has to be earned by working very, VERY hard or sacrificing.

The reality is, it's going to be necessary to unlearn what keeps you from it and DO what's necessary to relearn what draws it to you. Once you DO that, then, you can begin DOING the things which provide it so you can HAVE it...whatever IT might be.

More than just blindly DOING, working harder, or floating around trying this, trying and trying some other thing, it's going to require learning HOW to do "the right things" in the right order.

Once you know what those steps and the "correct order" are, then it's simply a matter of making the commitment to begin DOING those things in PRECISELY that way...CONSISTENTLY and following through until the job is done.

Also, in MOST cases, if you TRULY WANT to, but you AREN'T, getting from where you are to where you "truly desire" to BE, may only require taking a few VERY IMPORTANT moments for yourself, to DO an honest and deeply revealing reality check FIRST so you might SEE why you're not living the kind of life that nearly EVERYONE "claims" to WANT.

Sometimes a "Reality Check" can work wonders...for REAL. I do Reality Checks all the time. In many cases the change experienced by choosing to DO the kind of reality check we'll be doing as we move forward, can enable what many call "miraculous results" to show up in life.

If you're not currently experiencing a "life you LOVE" in ALL aspects because you think someone, some thing or some series of things "out there" are keeping you from it, a Reality Check will most definitely prove beneficial.